#FatSmutFriday Fat Erotic Romance!

We need fat representation in erotica and romance! So here are some amazing books and authors bringing it!

We need fat characters in erotic romance! Seeing representation of fat people in loving, sexual, passionate, sweet, kinky relationships helps de-stigmatize a whole group of people that are otherwise widely believed to be “gross” or asexual at best. Many, MANY of use are sexually active and enjoy or want to enjoy wholesome romance and sex lives. Seeing ourselves in erotic romance literature helps normalize that and its just plain hot

So I took to Twitter and I asked for Fat-Positive Erotic Romance. I was so happy to receive a number of authors sharing their books and links.
(I also received some nonsense and fatphobic bullshit but I won’t linger on that beyond saying, this shit happens every time a fat person steps out of the shadows and requests body positivity and that really had got to fucking stop, k? thanks).

Fat-Positive Erotica and Romance

I will admit some of these I have not read (yet) and if there are any stories here that are fatphobic, fetishizing fat people, or triggering without a warning, please let me know and I will remove them from the list.
If you have a romance story that features fat characters either as the protagonist or love interest, please let me email me at TheSmutGeek @ gmail . com

Their Troublesome Crush by Xan West

Xan West has some amazing books! I reviewed their short story in Best Lesbian Erotica 2019 and I’ve been hooked on their writing ever since! You can also read their amazing article on why they cara about Fat Characters in Erotica here. Their Troublesome Crush doesn’t disappoint. Its a sweet romance between two fat characters that also covers BDSM, disability, access intimacy, and more. My review of this book is coming soon but know that it will be a rave!

Taste of Honey by May Moore

With words good girl echoing in my mind I skipped through the buttons with one hand. My shirt opened, revealing all my flesh, cleavage bulging from a black lacy bra. Jonesey responded with a throaty groan, put his arms around me and skilfully undid the clasp. My boobs spilled out directly into his waiting hands. He twisted the nipples and squeezed the flesh, obviously revelling in their size and weight. I could see the need in his eyes and allowed my mouth to open with desire, no order necessary.
Read this sexy tale for free on Bellesa!

From Scratch by Katrina Jackson

Welcome to Sea Port, where the town baker, cop and fire chief fall heavily in lust.
I have to admit I’m a sucker for foodie romance especially when there’s a small town and a love triangle!

Last Minute Lust by Sorcha Rowan and Meg Pickles

Sorcha Rowan never fails to bring the heat in her erotica. She is one of my fav erotica peeps and I was very excited to learn that she’d written a tale featuring a plus size babe.

Madness by Catherine Winters

While her books are not romance with the happy endings traditional sense, there are fat characters and plenty of sex along with some fabulous writing. I highly recommend checking out the rest of her work as well.

Love with a View by Paige Peterson

Romance on the sweet side.
Will Audrey and Gabe, her new love, be able to battle the issues? Or will he runaway with her heart?

Desperation at the Office by Hara Surya

Content warning: pee kink.

My Smut

I have a few stories that feature fat characters. All of my Nerdy Dirty Curvy series focuses on fat heroines as does my Arctic Steam short story. You can read more about them and buy your own copies here.

Glass Delight Kit Review – The Joy of Glass Sex Toys!

I recently received the EdenFantasys Glass Delight Kit for review and was very pleased with the products. This was my first kit from EdenFantasys and I loved how thoughtfully it was put together – each toy selected for a purpose, carefully bagged, cutely packaged, and now in my hot little hands to be enjoyed.

Glass Delight Kit Unboxing Video

I am always happy to receive a package from EdenFantasys. Their labels are ALWAYS discrete. I do think they could use smaller, more eco-friendly packaging products but otherwise I think they do great.

The Glass Delight Kit Details

Glass Delight Kit

“Classy and stylish selection of shapes, colors and glass material – a genuine must-have for fans of both aesthetic pleasure and versatile functionality. A kit like no other – one that is eye-catching, well-thought out and exquisite in all the right ways.” EdenFantasys says it all and I have to agree with them here.

The kit contains:

  • 1 cute gift bag
  • Deep Water G glass dildo
  • Emerald Explorer probe
  • Pink Rotator

Each toy is made from borosilicate glass – often called Pyrex, which is a brand name of this type of glass. This glass is food grade, body safe, and nonporous. What makes them so safe is that the glass molecular structure is not crystalized – so it doesn’t shatter or sliver off.

Deep Water G

A sexy curved and nubbed glass dildo in a beautiful sapphire blue tone. It is a double ended dildo, making it a great choice for experimenting alone with the different textures or with a partner for a variety of shared deep water adventures.

Design / Shape / Size:

Length: 7 3/4″
Insertable length: 6 1/2″
Circumference: 4 1/2″
Diameter: 1 3/8″
Weight: 11 oz

Emerald Explorer

This bumpy probe is super fun to look at and play with. EdenFanasys described it best: “the texture is subtle but noticeable with an effect like growing speed bumps as you insert more of it.” It comes in Emerald Green and a lavender Purple.

Design / Shape / Size

Length: 6 1/2″
Insertable length: 4 1/2″
Circumference: 4″
Diameter: 1 1/4″
Weight: 9 oz

Pink Rotator

Years ago, I thought it would be super fun to have a dildo that looked like a juicer but had no idea how to give voice to this idea or what it would look like in regards to a body safe, comfortable product. I’m so glad someone else thought this was a good idea and created the Pink Rotator!

Design / Shape / Size:

Length: 5 3/4″
Insertable length: 3 3/4″
Circumference: 4 3/4″
Diameter: 1 1/2″
Weight: 9 oz

Similar Product: Blue Spiral (essentially the same thing only it has a blue accent spiral instead of all clear).

My Glass Delight Kit Experience

If you’ve read my review of the French Kiss, you will know that I am drawn to the beauty of glass dildos. As you can see, they are just so gorgeous! Probably the classiest group of sex toys. However, I did have issues with the French Kiss being awkwardly shaped for solo use (it hurt my wrist). So I was on the hunt for a glass dildo that rubbed me the right way without twisting my arm. I was so excited when not only did I find one but it came in a kit with two other fancy toys to play with!

First, I want to say that if you decide you want to try all of the toys in one evening, I suggest starting with the Pink Rotator and going up to the Deep Water G. I first tried the Deep Water G then the Rotator and I was so overstimulated from the dildo that the juicer did nothing for me.

Second, if you are into temperature play, glass dildos are perfect for you. They get icy cold and heat up with ease. However, if you are like me, and cold is not your thing, I highly recommend warming the toys up with your body (or if you’re lucky your partner’s body). They are pretty cold at room temperature, or that was my experience anyways.

Each Glass Toy was Truly a Delight

Mr. Faust and I have been discussing trying to get me to squirt (female/vulva ejaculate) and I truly believe if any particular toy was going to get me to do that, the Deep Water G is it. The g-spot curve and perfectly placed nubs stroke my g-spot in just the right way to keep me cumming.

The Pink Rotator is just plain fun. It looks like a juicer and it certainly gets the liquids flowing. I’m not sure who had more giggles using it, me or Mr. Faust who had fun rotating it once I had it in. The best part about this toy is when I used it solo combined with my Naughty Kisser vibrator – it was the best masturbation orgasm I’ve had in a long time.

I though the Emerald Explorer was going to be smaller. For some reason I had it in my mind that it would be a narrow glass version of beginner anal beads. To my surprise, these numbs are pretty thick and I was a little anxious. I’m still a bit of an anal newb despite giving it a few tries over the years.
This toy was perfect! Its non-porous, sleek design made it easy to lube up and insert without friction. Each nub was just like a speed bump. You can play it slow and steady, helping the bottom to take each one or you can up the speed for an intense experience.

All three toys get 5 Stars in my book!

Packaging Note

I couldn’t finish this review without commenting on the adorable EdenFantasys gift bag. This gift bag is sturdy, durable, and has a velcro closure. It also is discrete – no one would guess it came from a sex shop. You can reuse this bag again and again – I wish more companies used gift bags like this!

Disclaimer

I received the Glass Delight Kit free from EdenFantasys for review. The review given is my honest opinion and experience of these toys.
The links given are affiliate links. This means if you purchase toys via these links, I receive a small commission at no additional cost to you. Thank you, this money helps me keep SmutGeek running.

How Writing Smut Helps My Sex Life

Since I started writing smut and romantic erotica, my sex life has had a major boost. Before becoming a mom, Mr. Faust and I had a very adventurous sex life but all that died down quite a bit once we became parents. When I began reading more erotica, reading it aloud to Mr. Faust, and writing it myself – my libido got a boost, Mr. Faust enjoyed the audio foreplay of me reading my work to him, and I also received the added aid of connecting with like minded kinksters online to inspire us both.

Posy Churchgate wrote: Just read your piece ‘Writing for a better sex life’ – I dont use FB for my Posy persona, so this is the comment I wanted to leave x
~This was a great piece! As a writer of erotic fiction myself (over on my blog) I can attest to it unlocking my libido and also to it enhancing my sex life.
~I was too shy to put some of my desires into words, now my partner has read my stories he knows what goes on in my twisted little mind and can act on that if he chooses. Win, win!

Writing Smut for a Better Sex Life´╗┐

Enjoy this article I wrote for The Big Fling about how writing smut can help your sex life too!