Sub Prompt: How Did We Meet?

Submissive Prompt is How did I meet the person I serve?

Sir Phryxus and I met sort of at a club sort of online. I’ll explain.


I was new in town, going to college, all virginal and shiny and newby. I talked some friends into going to a local goth night at a club called Rafters. They were having a Masquerade and I really wanted to check it out. So a group of guy friends and I went. As we were having our I.D.s checked and our hands stamped as too-young-to-imbibe a guy came out to check on the number of people they had and laughed about how here he was hosting this shindig and the only one without a mask…
Yep, that was Mr. Faust.

I saw him a few other times that night. I thought he was cute but always around girls so I assumed he had a girlfriend and didn’t approach him. Besides, the guys I was with were like brothers and wouldn’t leave me alone for one second.

Later, I was looking at the forum that the goth night had – Dancing in the Dark (which sadly no longer exists) and joined the message boards. It was new to me so when it asked for your name I used my real name and didn’t think anything of it. I got a message not long after from a guy saying I had a really pretty name.
We got to chatting and decided to meet at the next goth night. I talked some girl friends into going this time, not feeling the need to have big brother watch over me.

As you might have guessed, the online guy was Mr. Faust. I was happily surprised. We danced, kissed. He asked if I had a boyfriend. I said no. He said, “You want one?” Yea…he was smooth lol. So we’ve been together ever since.

BDSM Training – Learning to be a better D/s Partner

My latest article, BDSM Training Schools, is now available on EdenFantasys’ SexIs Magazine! Its all about two subjects I really enjoy – BDSM and Adult Homework (I know, I know, I’m weird).

In the article I discuss the trend towards educational sites and training services that are popping up online to meet the growing need for people to learn to kinky play and D/s relationships in a safe way from the pros. I focus on the schools I’ve personally checked out and learned a lot from:

  • Kink Academy which I love for its continual addition of pro instructors and videos on a large variety of topics, including hypnotism, rope work, polyamory and legal concerns.
  • The Submissive Guide run my lunaKM which offers tons of free resources including a course on how submissives or slaves can better serve through inner reflection and contemplation.
  • BDSM Training Academy run by Mistress Sophia and Master Bishop have put together a collection of emailed classes for Dominants and submissives alike and have categorized them by D/s role as well as gender. Their basic course is free.

I loved these three sites. My Only complain is that the Submissive Guide and BDSM Training Academy didn’t have many resources for those like me who switch. Yes, I’m mostly a sub but sometimes I Top and it would be nice to have some resources from them to help submissives who sometimes cross that line and how to stay grounded either way. Perhaps they will develop some in the near future.